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Sorry for leaving my blog without any new posting for a week..i don't really know why, as i actually have something to post in my blog..

I'm doing this as a favour for my sister in-law, whom still feeling down due to her broken heart..

Aaaa..YES...LOVE is wonderful, fun, exciting, funny, whatever not..So what do i know about love?..not much, i'm no LOVE GURU..but i've learned from experience..bitter and sweet. There were times your heart's melted, then crushed, then soften, and then hardened...Everyone have their ups and downs..You'll learned along the way.

To My Dear Sister..

By this time you should start forgetting him (it's been a week). It may takes time, but DO IT NOW..he had LEFT you for someone else. It's not worth it trying to win him back..I'm very sure nobody wants to be the 2ND. CHOICE..I'm very sure he's a womaniser too (you've already detected it)..and YES i understand that you're lonely, you feels that you need him..(look around, just look over your shoulder..you are not on your own)


You told me that you're still in touch with him, and i do told you to continue that..but after some thinking and watching you (yesterday)..I think you shouldn't see him (to settle this problem) or have any connection with him..Stop it ASAP..change your number, delete his number. The longer you decided not to delete and erase it..people behind your back are wasting their saliva, thoughts..

SORRY, it will hurt your feelings but pls remember this is also a MOTIVATION so that you keep up with your life..

A Malays' idiom of "BERTEPUK SEBELAH TANGAN" (clapping with one hand only) which i can translate as YOU LIKE SOMEONE, BUT HE OR SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU..that's a terrible scenario in love!! If he didn't love or care or like you anymore, there will be NO LOVE, NO CARING, NO LIKING for you..It's even worse if he had already find someone else!


Don't waste your time chasing him. START accepting the fact and...START writing something else in your blog..SLOWLY STOP expressing your sadness (i'm very sure he'll visit your blog, but doesn't mean he'll feel totally guilty and come running back!)..GO HAVE FUN as you've mentioned. DON'T SHOW you desperation, none of the family are pushing you to get married ASAP (you're lucky..)

IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT..DON'T BLAME yourself for not having the time for him, etc..Your time, you decide. Put the GRUDGE away, put a SMILEY face you've always had.

Hopefully..I'll see your happy face this week..

Like it or not, i'm typing these with honesty and care..All of us care. You're a lucky girl, a lot of people wiling to give you a shoulder to cry on..Appreciate them by showing that you can CHANGE..and FACE THE FACT..


YES...Take your time, but i believed that you need to show more happy faces (though your heart is not)..Remember, a broken heart is curable if you let it heal by open-up to others...BUT NOT TO HIM :)